What Is a MIAM?

If you are separating and thinking about mediation, you may have been told you need a MIAM.

A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. It is usually the first step before family mediation begins and, in many cases, the court expects people to attend a MIAM before making an application.

At Meraki Family Mediation, I offer MIAM appointments for people who want to understand their options around child arrangements, finances after separation, or other family disputes.

As a former practising family solicitor from Wallsend, I understand both the legal framework and the emotional reality people are navigating when relationships break down. My aim is to provide a calm, clear space where you can talk things through and understand the best next step for you and your family.

What happens in a MIAM?

A MIAM is a private meeting between you and the mediator. The other person does not attend your appointment.

During the meeting we will usually discuss:

what has been happening in your situation
what issues need to be resolved
whether mediation may be suitable
any safeguarding or safety concerns
what other options may be available if mediation is not appropriate

It is also a chance for you to ask questions and understand what mediation involves.

Do I need a MIAM before going to court?

In many family cases, the court expects a MIAM to take place before an application is made. For example, a C100 application in relation to children matters or a Form A for financial proceedings on divorce.

There are some exceptions. If mediation is not suitable, this can be discussed during the MIAM.

Is a MIAM the same as mediation?

No. A MIAM is not a joint mediation session. It is an initial meeting to assess whether mediation could help resolve the issues. If mediation is suitable, sessions can then be arranged. If not, I will explain what the alternatives may be.

How can mediation help?

If mediation goes ahead after a MIAM, it can help parents and separating couples discuss issues such as:

child arrangements
finances and property after separation
communication and practical arrangements

The aim is to create a structured environment where difficult conversations can move forward more constructively.

MIAM Frequently Asked Questions

How long does a MIAM take?

A MIAM usually takes around 45 to 60 minutes. It is a private meeting between you and the mediator where we talk through your situation and whether mediation may be suitable.

Do both people attend the MIAM?

No. MIAMs are separate individual meetings. Each person attends their own appointment so that everyone has the opportunity to speak openly and ask questions.

Do I have to attend a MIAM before going to court?

In many family cases, the court expects a person to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before making an application. There are some exceptions, and if mediation is not suitable this can be discussed during the MIAM.

Can a MIAM be done online?

Yes. Online MIAM appointments are available, which many clients find convenient. Face-to-face appointments can also be arranged where appropriate.

What happens after a MIAM?

If mediation is suitable and both people are willing to take part, mediation sessions can then be arranged. If mediation is not appropriate, I will explain the options available and provide the relevant confirmation for court if required.