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What Is a MIAM?

 

If you are separating and thinking about mediation, you may have been told you need a MIAM.

 

A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. It is usually the first step before family mediation begins and, in many cases, the court expects people to attend a MIAM before making an application.

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At Meraki Family Mediation, I offer MIAM appointments for people who want to understand their options around child arrangements, finances after separation, or other family disputes.

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As a former practising family solicitor from Wallsend, I understand both the legal framework and the emotional reality people are navigating when relationships break down. My aim is to provide a calm, clear space where you can talk things through and understand the best next step for you and your family.

 

What happens in a MIAM?

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A MIAM is a private meeting between you and the mediator. The other person does not attend your appointment.

During the meeting we will usually discuss:

  • what has been happening in your situation

  • what issues need to be resolved

  • whether mediation may be suitable

  • any safeguarding or safety concerns

  • what other options may be available if mediation is not appropriate

It is also a chance for you to ask questions and understand what mediation involves.

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Do I need a MIAM before going to court?

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In many family cases, the court expects a MIAM to take place before an application is made. For example, a C100 application in relation to children matters or a Form A for financial proceedings on divorce. 

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There are some exceptions. If mediation is not suitable, this can be discussed during the MIAM.

 

Is a MIAM the same as mediation?

 

No. A MIAM is not a joint mediation session. It is an initial meeting to assess whether mediation could help resolve the issues. If mediation is suitable, sessions can then be arranged. If not, I will explain what the alternatives may be.

 

How can mediation help?

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If mediation goes ahead after a MIAM, it can help parents and separating couples discuss issues such as:

  • child arrangements

  • finances and property after separation

  • communication and practical arrangements

The aim is to create a structured environment where difficult conversations can move forward more constructively.

MIAM Frequently Asked Questions

 

How long does a MIAM take?

A MIAM usually takes around 45 to 60 minutes. It is a private meeting between you and the mediator where we talk through your situation and whether mediation may be suitable.

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Do both people attend the MIAM?

No. MIAMs are separate individual meetings. Each person attends their own appointment so that everyone has the opportunity to speak openly and ask questions.

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Do I have to attend a MIAM before going to court?

In many family cases, the court expects a person to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before making an application. There are some exceptions, and if mediation is not suitable this can be discussed during the MIAM.

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Can a MIAM be done online?

Yes. Online MIAM appointments are available, which many clients find convenient. Face-to-face appointments can also be arranged where appropriate.

 

What happens after a MIAM?

If mediation is suitable and both people are willing to take part, mediation sessions can then be arranged. If mediation is not appropriate, I will explain the options available and provide the relevant confirmation for court if required.

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